Page 1 of 2 Some men believe that women gravitate toward men who are aggressive when it comes to putting their bid in. This is not always the case. Most women like a man who can control his emotions, who has developed a sense of knowing when and how to be aggressive and who has learned when to ease off the gas and cruise in for the catch. There is a fine line between eager and desperate, just as there is between obsessive and aggressive.
Understand that in the early stages of dating, a woman is providing you with the opportunity to make a great impression. Take advantage of this time frame. One of the tricks to dating is to keep a woman interested enough to see that you are not in desperate need of her attention. The alluring affect of the honeymoon stage that’s often shared between couples can be quite intoxicating. Try your best to slow your tempo. Take the reigns and allow a pace to emerge that will always have her coming back for more.
Make her miss you. Offering a woman every bit and piece of you will potentially extinguish her interest in a shorter period of time than if she were fed bread crumbs along the way. Limiting your availability at the onset will also raise your value in her eyes, as it indicates that you have a sense of independence. The elements of surprise and mystery work well in keeping her intrigued. Making her seem like an enhancement to your life by “taking time out of your busy schedule” to spend with her will make her feel special.
Here are some helpful tips that will make her miss you and keep her coming back for more.
Get a life
If you have an overabundance of free time on your hands, it is highly suggested that you fill up that void with hobbies and activities. This will help in keeping your temptation to call or hang out with her to a minimum. Remember, having other interests outside of her gives the impression that you are OK with “me” time. Codependence in the beginning stages of a relationship is the No. 1 deterrent in the dating rule book, and this will definitely not make her miss you.
Make her wonder if you’re thinking of her
When you take a woman out on a date, other than calling to make sure she made it home safely, do not call her to discuss the date in detail the following day. Let her bask in the romance and give her time to imagine what your next interaction will entail. Calling her two or three days later is fine, as it lets her know that you’re thinking of her. Also, let some time pass before you ask her out on the next date. Buffering the time between contact with her is a major step in making her miss you.
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